In memories .... part 2

After University 3 years, I managed to graduate. Only 2 seats to attend to my Convocation and one of the mandatory seat I reserved for her. I can see from her eyes a sight of relief seeing me half success. Ending my study life means beginning of working life.

I initially plan to work in KL so I give my self a month to search for job in KL after my graduation. Staying in KL without income is not an easy thing. She does not agree or deny me to continue staying in KL even though I know she don't really like the idea as she will be lonely. Life seems to be funny as just before i decided to back to Melaka to find job, I was offer an interview in KL.

I went back to KL for interview and the job required us to work either in Johor, Singapore or Batam. The me by then don't even know where is Batam so we were offered a one day trip to understand Batam. My aunt against the job as she not sure of what Batam look like by then too. Without a passport, i took it as a determining factor, I told her if i able to get a passport by that noon, I will go for the visit and decide later.  (The passport by then is very difficult to get as all number run out as early as 8am and i was discussing the topic at 11am).

Maybe it is predestine that way, I manage to got my passport on the same afternoon. I explained and share the things I saw in Batam. She was at first reluctant to let go but at last she let me choose my own destiny. And that's how i started my first job. Training in Batam for first six month before back in Johor for plant setup.

During the 6 months in Batam, every Friday I will travel by bus to Batam Ferry terminal took a ferry to Johor ferry terminal then chasing a cab to Johor bus station to catch a bus back to Melaka. Always reaching Melaka midnight, she will always wait me with dinner reserved for me (or i shall called it breakfast). Sometime when i reached home, she already sleeping on the couch while waiting for me. Sunday taking the reverse method back to Batam. This has been repeating for the whole 6 months.

Started life in Johor plant is more busy then "screw up vacation" in Batam, I have less time to go back. (whereby Johor is nearer compared to Batam). Only going back once or twice a month, I feel very bad. Until next chapter of my life where i got my girlfriend (now my wife). I relocate my wife in Melaka when my first baby on the way.

Family Celebration

Catch hold at barber

time with kids

To be frank, she was the one i trusted and she is the first one I refer back. The marriage decisions created some havoc but I will put that aside. now that my wife is in Melaka, so she have accompany to talk. I think thats the most I can do. with my first kids arrival and follow by my second kids arrival, She is having a contented life where she can play with kids, at least she won't feel lonely as me in Johor, My elder sister in KL.

The only photo I had with her

Holiday in Penang

4 years in Melaka, My house in Johor finally completed and I decided to bring my family down to Johor, but my aunt do not want to follow as she worry she do not have friends in Johor. Hesitate to let my wife and kids follow me to Johor, but with heavy heart, she let them go. She know when they are in Johor, there will be less time for her to play with the kids. She even proposed to let me elder son to study in Melaka but I rejected the proposal cause I was separated from my parent since i was small kids and I do not want the history to happen again. So we started our life in Johor without her following us.

Superman showing the road

Family Trip to Singapore

Every time school holiday she will plan for activities for the kids in Melaka. She will call everyday to my house to talk to my wife and my kids. sometime even few times call in a day. And my kids will call her to complain when my wife canned them.

Durian time

Cameron break

Penang

(To be continue....)